There is a profound impact that music can have on a funeral service. Music is not just a background element; it is a powerful tool that can evoke emotions, bring back memories, and provide comfort to those who are grieving. Here’s why music is so important for a funeral and how you can personalise it to reflect the unique life of your loved one.
The Importance of Music in Funerals
Music has the ability to touch the soul in ways that words alone cannot. It can set the tone for the service, whether it be solemn, reflective, or even uplifting. The right music can help express grief, celebrate the life of the deceased, and find solace in shared memories. It creates a space where emotions can be freely expressed and shared among those who are gathered.
Reflecting the Deceased Through Music
Choosing music that reflects the personality and preferences of the deceased is a beautiful way to honour their memory. Think about the songs they loved, the music that played during significant moments in their life, or even their favourite genre. For instance, if they were a fan of classical music, pieces like "Nimrod" from Elgar’s Enigma Variations or "Ave Maria" by Schubert can be deeply moving. On the other hand, if they had a penchant for pop music, tracks like "My Way" by Frank Sinatra or "Supermarket Flowers" by Ed Sheeran can be fitting tributes.
Other Reasons for Choosing Specific Music
Beyond personal preferences, certain pieces of music may be chosen for their lyrics, their ability to evoke specific memories, or their cultural significance. For example, "You’ll Never Walk Alone" by Gerry & The Pacemakers is often chosen for its comforting message of support and solidarity along side it’s football associations. Similarly, "Time to Say Goodbye" by Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman can be a poignant choice for its farewell and remembrance themes.
Hymns in a Religious Service
In religious services, hymns hold a special place. They are not just songs but powerful expressions of faith and devotion. Hymns can unite the congregation in a shared act of worship, providing comfort and a sense of community. Popular hymns like “Amazing Grace,” “How Great Thou Art,” and “The Lord is My Shepherd” are often chosen for their timeless messages and ability to resonate deeply with mourners. Singing these hymns can offer solace and a sense of continuity, connecting the present moment with centuries of tradition and faith.
Time for Personal Reflection
Most funeral services include a time for personal reflection, a quiet moment where mourners can have their own thoughts and memories of the deceased. During this time, playing a piece of music can provide a comforting backdrop and help create a serene atmosphere. This music can be a favourite song of the deceased or a piece that holds special meaning for the family, allowing everyone to connect with their own emotions and memories in a personal way.
Music for Entry and Exit
Music is often played as the coffin enters the service and as mourners leave. Typically, the entry music starts before the mourners enter, and the exit music continues to play as they leave, meaning they may not hear the entire track. Choosing a piece that was significant to the deceased or that sets the right tone for the service can be very meaningful. For the exit, an uplifting track can be a lovely choice, as it can help to lift the spirits of those attending and provide a sense of hope and comfort as they leave the service.
Popular Music Choices for Funerals
Classical Tracks:
"Nimrod" from Enigma Variations – Edward Elgar
"Ave Maria" – Franz Schubert
"Canon in D" – Johann Pachelbel
"Adagio for Strings" – Samuel Barber
"Clair de Lune" – Claude Debussy
Hymns:
“Amazing Grace” – A timeless hymn that speaks of redemption and grace.
“How Great Thou Art” – Celebrates the majesty of God and His creation.
“The Lord is My Shepherd” – Based on Psalm 23, offering comfort and reassurance.
“Abide with Me” – A plea for God’s presence in times of trouble.
“All Things Bright and Beautiful” – Celebrates the beauty of God’s creation
“Guide Me O Thou Great Redeemer” – Reflects the journey of grief and the God’s guidance.
“Jerusalem” – Stirring and uplifting.
Contemporary Tracks:
"My Way" – Frank Sinatra
"Angels" – Robbie Williams
"You’ll Never Walk Alone" – Gerry & The Pacemakers
"Time to Say Goodbye" – Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman
"Wind Beneath My Wings" – Bette Midler
“See You Again” – Wiz Khalifa
“Three Little Birds” – Bob Marley and the Wailers
“Somewhere Over The Rainbow“ - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
“What a Wonderful World” - Louis Armstrong
Personalising a funeral with music is a heartfelt way to pay tribute to your loved one. It allows you to create a service that is not only meaningful but also reflective of the unique life they lived. Whether you choose classical pieces or contemporary songs, the right music can provide comfort, evoke cherished memories, and help everyone present to celebrate the life of the deceased in a deeply personal way.
Brooks Independent Funeral Directors
21 High Street, Malmesbury, Wiltshire, SN16 9AA
01666 822200
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